Heart stops going ummmmmmmmm

Pulse donot read this post, cause I have dissected Salaam Namaste's story. Don't tell me I didnot warn you.

Watched Salaam Namaste yesterday, its an enjoyable movie, all colourful and lovely. The first part is very funny and thankfully the second part wasn't dragged too much, though Ms.Ambar does shed few tears between screaming at the top of her voice and dancing in the middle of the night on the streets.

Saif is good like always, though his character Nick is referred to as jerk several times in the movie, I wonder why. Is it his fault that Amby changes her decision and he doesn't. Their relationship is based on mutual understanding and wants. Unfortunately she gets pregnant and in the beginning both agree that abortion is the best way out. But then Amby changes her mind about the baby, she wants it and he doesn't and then starts the tirade about how insensitive and unsupportive Nick is. He does the dishes and cleans the house how much more sensitive do you expect a guy to be, who doesn't even want to be in that situation in the first place. Awright from a woman's point of view maybe he is insensitive, but only because he is angry, if Amby can be angry cause he does not understand, then he has a right to be angry too, cause he feels she does not understand. The fact that he is around while most men would run away makes it clear that he is supportive though in a denial mode, but he will come around and he does.

She is against getting an abortion maybe because the baby is in her, its a life thats growing in her and she feels it and is unable to end it. But the case is not the same with him, he cannot feel like her cause he is not able to understand the transformation she is going through.

So it only shows how important it is to get our priorities right before getting into a relationship. Everything in life comes with a price tag, sometimes much higher than we expect. Once we get down to paying, the heart stops going ummmmmmmmmmmmm.